If you want to plan and that plan includes arranging for funeral services in advance of need, we are here to help. We are pleased to offer numerous pre-arrangement (in advance of need) funeral options.
Pre-Arrangement or Pre-Need is when a person takes care of their funeral arrangements by meeting with their funeral director, who will place their wishes in writing in advance of death occurring.
To better assist you in answering your questions about Pre-Arrangement and available options, you can click here to download a free copy of our “Guide to Pre-Arrangement Options and Pre-Planning Funerals.” This guide covers numerous areas of items to consider when discussing pre-arranged funeral plans.
If you would like to being your pre-arrangement online, please click here and you will be taken to a fillable/downloadable form which you can then forward to us. Once we receive it, one of our funeral directors will contact you.
Many people plan for life events such as weddings and vacations well in advance, but many people do not plan for something that is certain to happen, their funeral. While most people do not want to think about their own mortality, the time to pre-plan your funeral is now. The primary advantages of pre-arranging your funeral is to relieve the burden on your loved ones in an already emotional time, and to ensure your funeral is carried out according to your wishes, eliminating the task of second-guessing what you would have wanted. Taking the time now to arrange your funeral is one less thing your loved ones will need to worry about once you’ve passed. Pre-planning and pre-paying your funeral is one of the most thoughtful gifts you can give to your family.
You planned for your first home, you planned for your children’s college, you planned family vacations, you made your will, you planned for your financial security, planning your final wishes is the next step. You ensure that personal records are organized and easy for your survivors to locate.
by planning your funeral arrangements in advance, you spare your family the anxiety of making funeral arrangements. You can eliminate worry and doubt.
You will gain peace of mind when you pre-arrange. You ensure that your wishes are known, and you protect your loved ones from having to make difficult decisions at one of the most trying times in their lives.
Hundreds of thousands of people like you have completed all arrangements for their funerals because pre-arrangement is an essential part of overall estate planning.
You, together with your family can plan your final wishes and you can personalize your wishes to reflect your unique personality.
You have some options when making the decision to pre-arrange. You can choose to give us a call, make an appointment to visit with one of our Funeral Directors or you can begin your pre-arrangement online through our website. We can also arrange to meet with you at a location of your choosing, such as your home or even over lunch. We encourage you to bring a close family member or friend with you.
You can expect the appointment to be approximately 1.5 - 2 hours. The conference will begin with the funeral director reviewing basic vital statistic information about you (or your loved one). This information can include full name, date of birth, social security number, occupation, family members names, etc.
We recommend that you bring the following information with you to the conference. Please note all items are when applicable)
After we gather vital statistic information and your wishes, we will guide you to our merchandise selection room (if you don’t prefer to visit the selection room, we have photos available).
The merchandise selection room features caskets, alternative burial containers, adult burial enclosures, vaults, cremation urns & vaults, clothing, memorial keepsake jewelry, cremation jewelry and other personalization options. You will then make any selections you prefer and will then return to the meeting.
After you return from the merchandise selection room, the funeral director will then outline and review everything you have discussed and selected. He/She will then enter all the information onto a form called a Statement of Funeral Goods and Services. This is a contract between yourself (or your loved one) and the funeral home. Scroll below which discuss in greater detail the payment options which are available to you.
We will then present you with several (but not a lot) of forms to sign and be there for you to answer any additional questions you may have. At this point, the conference will be completed.
Of course, after the meeting is concluded if say a day, week or month from now, you decide to make changes, we handle those as well, please just give us a call.
Prepaying your funeral reduces stress and financial burden on your loved ones after your passing. We can coordinate a payment plan that suits your needs, from a single payment plan to monthly ACH withdrawals. By prepaying for your funeral, you eliminate your family’s second guess on if they have spent too much or too little on your funeral.
Pre-Payment also protects you and your family from inflation, and the growth is non-taxable. Depending on your region, if your funeral costs less than the amount you have put aside, those funds will be refunded back to your beneficiaries. Each year thousands of people decide to pre-plan and pre pay their funeral, these plans are designed to be flexible and can accommodate the many changes that often occur in peoples’ lives.
We offer trust, annuity, and insurance options through SecurChoice™ and Funeral Directors Life Insurance Company. You have several options available if you choose to pre-arrange and pre-pay for your funeral. You may already have an insurance policy to cover these expenses. You can pay in full in cash/check/credit card. You can pay in payments using SecurChoice™ Pre-Need Funding Program or you can purchase a life insurance policy through FDLIC.
Below are some brochures which cover topics related to pre-arrangement options. Please click on any of the links below to download a free printable copy of the brochure. If you prefer to have a copy mailed to you, please contact us.
If you are interested in additional materials related to pre-arrangements and other topics, please feel free to download a copy of our Available Resources by clicking here.
When you think about putting your affairs in order, your mental checklist of items to attend to likely includes preparing a Will (or perhaps, updating an existing Will). But the list should be expanded to include these items as well:
Preparing financial and health care powers of attorney, so that a trusted loved one has legal authority to handle your banking and other financial matters, and give consent for hospital care, medical and surgical procedures, and nursing home admission.
Preparing a Living Will, so that your health care agent and health care providers will know your wishes regarding the administration of life prolonging medical treatment- especially when there is no reasonable prospect for recovery.
Obtaining an Organ Donor consent card (or having your driver’s license notated as “Organ Donor”) if you want to donate skin, tissue, eyes, and/or organs
Preparing a personal property memorandum, so that you can direct that specific items of tangible personal property, such as family heirlooms, will be given to designated individuals. This is not a substitute for a Will, but does simplify the distribution of these items. (And this is a good opportunity to describe the provenance of items that have been in the family for generations, so that the recipient can appreciate the historical and sentimental value of the object.)
Pre-planning a funeral or at least preparing a letter addressed to your closest next of kin indicating your desires regarding interment, including burial or cremation of your remains. (Some people even pick songs for their funerals or write their obituaries.)
Making sure beneficiary designations are up-to-date on life insurance and pension and retirement plans. Spouses have certain rights to retirement plan benefits, and you may need legal advice before you can effect a change that removes a spouse as beneficiary.
Preparing a “road map” for your executor, listing the names of your banks, brokers, insurance companies, and any other entity that holds or controls assets that will pass to your heirs. Also include account numbers, PINs and Passwords, so that your executor will be able to obtain online access to financial account information as well as to your social media accounts such as Facebook and Twitter.
Remember to review your Will at least every five years or when you face a significant life event such as divorce, illness or the death of a beneficiary of your Will. And use your will to provide for your unique interests – such as providing for the care of pets.
Your executor will appreciate your efforts to “put your affairs in order” – it will make it much easier to attend to the myriad of details the executor will need to tend to immediately upon your death and over time. For example:
Estate administration is not necessarily complex, but involves so many steps that most executors obtain the advice and assistance of an experienced attorney. The attorney can assist the executor or administrator in handling their duties and obligations, including:
If you’ve chosen a strong executor, who has good legal support as needed, estate administration can be a smooth process. This is especially true where you’ve taken the time to plan ahead to put your affairs in order.
This section has been prepared by Bridget M. Whitley, Esq. (bmw@skarlatoszonarich.com), and Elizabeth B. Place, Esq. (ebp@skarlatoszonarish.com), both attorneys practicing with the Harrisburg Law form of Skarlatos & Zonarich, LLC. Ms. Whitley concentrates her practice in the areas of estate planning and trust and estate administration, while Ms. Place concentrates her practice in estate planning and elder law (including Medicaid eligibility planning). They can be reached on 717-233-1000 or by email.
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